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I Am Blessed

 

Yesterday was my last day of work at the elementary school. It's bittersweet and comes with sadness but I know great things are to come.

When I started working 4 years ago as a Proctor (noon aide) I never expected the impact these kids would have in my life, in my heart. They have become "my" kids. I became their protector and my motherly instinct went into overdrive daily. Working with these kids from kindergarden to 6th grade, I've seen kids that are loving, angry, abused and kind. These kids touched my heart in such a way I have no words.

So as I arrived at the school yesterday morning while the kids were at recess I was overwhelmed with the flood of kids asking "please not to leave". I received multiple homemade cards from them along with a few tears. I felt so loved and appreciated by them as well as some of my coworkers. I never knew it would have been so difficult to leave a job that seemed so miniscule.

Children are are future and if I made a difference in just one child my work has been done. We can all be an influence on children everywhere, whether it's at work, school, home, or at the market, children reflect what they see. Give a child love and respect and you'll receive it ten-fold.

I have been truely blessed and fortunate to have made such great relationships with all these kids and will cherish it for a lifetime. I know God has plans for me elsewhere and that is why this opportunity for a new job has opened up. It was time for me to move out of that comfort zone and follow the path that God  has prepared. Whomever takes my place at the school is one lucky person, these kids are some of the greatest and kindest I've seen. Open your heart and let a child touch it, you will never be the same.

Love and some regret comes with the move, but great anticipation awaits me.

Are You An Encourager??

We are all born with many gifts persistance, tenacity, competiveness, and faith. But it only takes one person to inspire you to become the person you are meant to be.

A mother's natural instinct is to encourage their young to strive to reach a goal just like the picture of the mare and the colt. It is a natural accurance to encourage.

You may have had many people who have told you things were beyond your reach or you were to become something different than what you desire, setting you up for failure. Encouragement may not have always been there from ones close to you. But you must overcome those negative thoughts and ridding those people in your lifeand thoughts in your head that hold you back.

You were designed to succeed!! Have the faith in yourself and your God that all things are possible. Become that risk-taker and step out of your comfort zone. Everyone is born with an enthusiasm and excitement to succeed, but it may have become lost in the clutter of negativity. You need to get excited about your life TODAY but you also want to be a part of someones day and be an encourager. This is what gives us hope and makes us more attractive to others.

The feeling of making someones day is priceless. Offer a hand, a smile or a kind word. They go far. Let someone know you appreciate them and all they do. And it will come back ten-fold.

Make today your day!!

The Art of Forgiveness

Have you ever felt so betrayed or hurt that the last thing you would do would forgive. Well my friends today I want to share with you the Art of Forgiveness.

Over this past weekend I was watching a movie( a true story) about an Amish family who's daughter was shot at school along with many of her classmates.  The mother of this particular girl could not understand or even want to forgive the man who brought so much pain and despair to her and her community. Why would she ever give him or his family the satisfaction of forgiveness. In the Amish community  forgiveness is expected because of your faith in God that he will remove that hate that comes with anger and replace it with love. As I put myself in this mother's place I thought to myself, I don't know if i would be able to offer forgiveness either. Over the course of the movie she battles with herself and family how forgiveness came so easy for them and how she will ever move forward.

At the ending of the movie one of the survivors tells this mother that her daughter was the bravest of all the girls.  The man asked the girls, "who will pray for me for my sin" and her daughter said, "I will pray for you, I will pray that you are forgiven and I forgive you." As the tears gushed from the mother and myself she realized that true forgiveness is possible and does comes from the heart.

I sit back and think about my own life. Have I offered that hand of forgiveness? There are many times in our lives where things don't always go as we plan or people don't treat you well. But forgiveness will release the anger and hate within you. Asking God for help to offer it and also to forgive you will remove such a load from ones shoulders.

I know when I truely offer forgiveness I experience the freedom that comes as a result. We are the ones who suffer most when we choose not to forgive. When we do forgive, the Lord sets our hearts free from the anger, resentment and hurt that may consume us.

I choose forgiveness as God forgave me. Get rid or the pain and anger, release yourselves from the shackles of hate. Have faith in God that he will heal your pain. There is a wonderful world and beautiful people who are full of love for you. Forgive as this young girl forgave her killer that she may live in love with her heavenly Father.

You my friend are beautiful and loved!!

Change begins within you

At 37 years old I met my biological father. For years in yearned to know who he was and what he was like. I was raised with my step father who became an abusive alcholic when I was @ 12 years old. I thought, why did I have to have a dad like this, why couldn't my "real" dad come save me. Well it took years of soul searching and I knew that the reason God put me into that situation was so I could change the next generation.  Happy to say the abusiveness and alcholism ended with my step dad. 

As a child we wonder why we were not accepted by our fathers, for whatever reason, but as adults we have the ability to move forward and change the outcome of our lives. To make the decision to never become my step father or even my bio father has become my reason to be a strong woman and loving parent. I would never want my children to endure the abuse and torment I faced as a child. The past is in the past and it will never change, but to let it consume you or become your excuse and to not rise beyond that comes from within.  You must change your thoughts, attitude, and learn from what you went through to become that STRONG person God designed you to be!!

I will continue to become stronger, wiser, and loving because my God has put that inside of me. What is your design? Who do you want to become, or not become?  It's up to you.

My biological father still does not have a realtionship with me or my family for reasons he has within himself. I see it as he is missing some wonderful times with my daughters and myself, but that is his choice and I'm ok with it. I no longer feel like the victim of circumstances.

I am me, like it or not, my REAL Father, my God, keeps me safe and secure.

have a wonderful day!!

Where are you??

Today is about changing our thoughts.  How we all long to be successful in our businesses and yet struggle keeps showing its ugly head.  We see that ugly thing is not only fear, it's also procrastination. Fear of failing has been my biggest hurdle but if I don't try and put forth action how will I know if I struggle. So procrastination sets in and says I'll work on it tommorrow when better ideas come to mind.

Well after spinning our wheels and seeing little results due to little or no action it comes blatenly apparent that it can't work that way. Consistant action on a business or goal is pertinent to receive a result. Either good or bad, but at least it would be measureable. When nothing gets done then what have you to measure it to?

Why not change the voice in your head that says you might fail to you might become a success!!  It just might work, we only have to give it a try. You don't ride a bike the first time you try, it takes practice. What makes you think any different in your business.  If I was hired by someone to do job or task and treated it the way of inconsistancy or little results I would have been fired. Treating your business as an important job must be your number 1 thought. 

We let life, family, work, excuses, clutter our minds that we're so busy with the little things that we can't spend adequate time on your blog or businesss. But really how much time does it take to write out something you learned or something you'd like to share, and experience.  An hour maybe?  Don't you deserve to spend an hour on yourself, your future?

Don't get me wrong. I have a family, sports, aging parents too. But blocking out a time to do your "work" can be done. Finding something that you enjoy talking about makes it so much more rewarding to write about. 

Don't fill you head with doubt, raise your concerns and struggles to a higher source, God, or whatever may be your belief and ask for help.  "God is faithful, and he will not let you be tested beyond your strength but with your testing he will also provide the way out so that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13). We are never given anything in life that we can't handle.

So lets start today to make a difference in our business!! Procrastination ends today, let's stomp it out of our lives and never see it raise it ugly head to us again!!

Make it a wonderful day 

Successful Mom??

As I'm sitting here wondering what to write I thought perhaps a blog on becoming a succesful Mom would work.  I  first was thinking about the monetary part of success.   But being a successful mom is so much more than money.  Being a successful Mom is as simple as raising your kids to the best of your ability.  Nothing is more rewarding than seeing your kids grow into smart, gracious, and loving kids.  

I think back to when I was younger and having my mom guide me.  My childhood was not the storybook life.  My dad was an alcoholic and emotionally abusive. My mom on the other hand was and is a kind, religious woman, who would do anything for us girls.  Even though I didn't agree with my mom's decision to stay with my dad until his death, I respected it.  My mom was the core support of our home.  She grounded us, taught us to become strong women and putting our full trust in God to guide us.  Without her I don't think any of us girls would have had a chance.  We have broken the cycle of alcoholism in our family, (my dad was the last), and have never looked back!!  Change begins where you are, with you….

Any woman can become a mother but it takes a special person to become a mom. 

So success does come in many forms.  Money, toys, houses, vacations sure are all great.  But what's better than being a successful parent, to me it's priceless.  I would't change it for anything!!

Our children are our future, fill them up with knowledge, humility, and love.  We owe it to them.

Good night all you great moms (and dads)!!!!

Overcoming Resistance??

Resistance can come in many forms. From your own self, people around us, and just plain life sometimes.  But why do we fall victims of it?

I've had much resistance lately and it comes to no surprise that it seems to boil down to change.  You see when you want change around you it hard for some people or yourself  to accept it fully.  The normal and comfortable way things roll aren't always easy but the benefits will outweigh  those uncomfortable feelings.

For so long I thought the reistance I have been feeling was because of my circle of people, the fear I was facing if I didn't succeed, or time management or lack there of.  But it's not that at all. After listen to a wonderful gal I am so glad to have found, I have learned that the resistance is ME!!!  It's because I'm allowing these road blocks to define me.  When resistance blocks you from your goal one may feel like throwing in the towel. Well that's exactly what resistance is. It's fear!!

So you ask how do I overcome resistance?  Ask God?  That's one way and if you're a spiritual person this is a great source.  I have found when I  have total faith in God to rescue me from the "storm" it seems to pass with ease.   You can't have fear and be fully faithful. Faith and fear do not reside in the same place.  We fear ourselves and often don't understand who we are, listen to the voice and destiny that God has given us.  In our hearts we are seeking to believe in big dreams so why not fully act on it?  You must demonstrate what you believe by what you do. 

Another way to overcome resistance is by getting rid of the Negative Nellies.  Don't let what others say get in your head.  Your are a wonderful person with such potential.  Your dreams are real so why not work toward them.  I know without a doubt that great things are in my future.  I believe that to the core!!  Sure I have family and friends saying "only in my dreams" and you know what they're right.  It is in my dreams and my destiny!!!  Living life to just live is not living, it's existing.  Why would anyone want to be just existing.  Life is sooo much more.

So I'm going to share with you what Sandi Krakowski spoke on about resistance. 

How to overcome resistance:

1.  Speak Life over yourself

2. Listen to the attacks or negative thoughts, feelings or voices and live the opposite

3. Get out of your own way

Faith destroys Fear!!  Have faith in yourself, in your God, in your being!!  You were designed to be a powerful human being and the only way to fullfill that is to stop making excuses, procrastinating, and take action.

Make today a wonderful & fulfilling day!!!

Stress Busting Strategies for the Holiday Season

   It is so easy to becomed stressed and overwhelmed this time of year. We burn a candle at both ends to try to make it the Holiday you envisioned. These few tips will help you take control of your schedule, relax a bit, and enjoy your holiday. :)

Redistribute your responsibilities.  If you usually prepare the holiday meal ask family or guests to pitch in by bringing their favorite dish. This will help lighten the load.  With all the shopping and wrapping going on recruit your spouse or kids to help.  The kids would love to wrap some of those presents for you, so what it they don't look as perfect as you would have hoped it.  Don't sweat  the small stuff and the kids will feel like such great helpers!!!  Have your spouse help out with the shopping or look into doing some of that shopping online.  No hassel, crowds, rude shoppers to deal with.  I find this a huge saver of my time and energy!!

Don't Procrastinate.  Start some of those time consuming tasks early.  Addressing the holiday cards on a weekend  or just after Thanksgiving.  Or even while just sitting and watching TV you could get a few done.  Before you know it you're finished, YEAH!!!  Start you holiday shopping now, don't wait and find yourself scrambling to find that last "Elmo" doll on a online auction, do it now!!

Avoid Conflicts.  Issues with family members make the holidays stressful. I can relate to this one personally.  If you have reservations about seeing a family member at holiday events, don't pretend everything is OK,  but try to avoid bringing up your problems with the family.

Keep it Simple!! I Love this tip the best.  Just ask yourself if you really enjoy all the rituals or have they become merely traditions. Mix it up, have fun!!  Who cares, life is too short to worry about it.

Take time for you.  Between cooking, cleaning, holiday errands, set aside time to focus on yourself.  Eat healthy, exercise, get enough sleep so you're relaxed and able to enjoy the holidays and those cherished family moments.

Emmitt Smith’s Speech

Emmitt Smith enter the Pro Football Hall of FameDid you watch Emmitt Smith's Football Hall of Fame speach last night?  Here is a snipet of it. "Now let's talk about some specific steps I took that were critical to sustaining my vision. There's a difference between merely having a dream and fulfilling a vision. Most people only dream. I only not had my childhood dream, but I did everything in my power to fulfill it. In addition to the acknowledgments I am privileged to make today, this moment creates a unique opportunity, an opportunity to share critical life principles. The first and most important principle is to be of service. The hardest service is for everyone. The second principle is we all need a championship strategy to guide us to help make those dreams come true. The third principle is, claim your inner champion. When you claim your inner champion, you will learn to see, hear and feel differently than others. So what I most want to convey here is, never, never let others define you; you define yourself. For example, I wrote down my goals and how I was going to achieve them because Dwight Thomas used to tell us, It's only a dream until you write it down, and then it becomes a goal. Over the course of my career, all of those things came to pass, and I know that writing down my goals was an essential strategy. Another critical principle is consistency. Consistency shows value. Consistency is necessary for trust, durability and longevity. You have to show up every week no matter how difficult the game or life might be. I not only showed consistency, but I did everything in my power to be the best that I possibly could. Over time consistency will allow you to achieve your goals. Next is balance. As I stated earlier, balance was the key to our success. We had all the balance you could possibly have. I exhibit balance in my personal life when I put my family in its proper place, and that is number one. Standing before you today, I know this is real. I know it's not a dream. But it almost feels surreal." True words of inspiration, Priceless!!!!!!

Key Tips for Your WordPress Settings

I just learned these great little steps in setting up your general setting to make sure prospects finds your website through a search and functions well.

From your Dashboard click settings in the left side toolbar. Go to General and at the top of the page you will see Blog Title Box. Within this box  enter a description of your blog that is Keyword Rich, this is what appears in the Title on Google when you do a Google Search. You want people to find you through your niche and this step will help ensure those results. You can enter for example, Work from home|mlm success|etc…. You want to enter these line separators between each keyword, this dash is located right above you Enter key. You want people to know what you are doing specifically on your blog but also that this line will spider well through your keywords.

Now in the next Box, Tag Line this also needs to be Keyword Rich.   It needs to end with a Statement of what you are doing on your blog as well.

Now just make sure your date and time is set right and update your changes.  Just this little step will spider you through your keywords so Google tracks you, Yeah!!

Now go back over to you settings and click on the permalinks. This is so important for your SEO and traffic so people can find you.

The Custom Structure should be check with the following in the box  /%postname%.  This will prevent weird looking URLS to be made and each post will have the title in that URL.  Save your changes.

Next will be the Reading Tab under Settings.  You may want to check “Your Latest Post” as your front page. Your front page will be the first page one lands on when they come to your website.  You may want to check “Static Page” as your front page. This would be a page that never changes, could be your capture or opt in page that leads your prospect to your site. You may change this as often as you like.  Save your changes…

Now see how easy that was to get going.

Now go have a Wonderful Day!!

See why Building your Business on The Internet is Important

If you think using the internet to grow and expand your business and build relationship around the  world is a waste of time, think again. Jennifer Van Grove hits the nail on the head!! The internet is THE future and it will only keep exploding year in and year out.

Experts Agree: Gen Y Will Not Grow Out of Social Networking [STUDY]

 
In a survey conducted by the Pew Internet and American Life Project, an overwhelming majority of technology experts and stakeholders believe that social networking and online sharing is more than just a fad for today’s youth.
More than two-thirds of those surveyed indicated that the Millennial generation — otherwise known as Generation Y — will continue to use social networking tools as they mature into adult life stages and have families of their own. The research is part of Pew’s fourth “Future of the Internet” study which includes responses from selected experts and Internet(Internet) users who were asked to think about “the future of the Internet-connected world between now and 2020.” Read More

Rich Dad’s Conspiracy of The Rich Review

 

I just finished reading, Rich Dad Poor Dad, Conspiracy of The Rich, and what an informative and eye opening book this is. I highly recommend it to anyone who is looking to gain more insight as to what is happening with the economy today as well as learning how it all evolved. It's a shame that the world today is so surrounded by debt, inflation, and economic turmoil. Seeing how our future is changing one needs to accept that change and stay educated how to work the "system". One part of Robert Kiyosaki's book was about fighting back and being prepared. Business at High Speed "In the 1970's, when I begain my first business, I soon became a multimillion-mile traveler with United and Pan American Airlines. Today, I get more business done sitting in my office and using the web to reach more people in less time, and with less energy-all for a lot less money. While I make more money, the airlines suffer, because business travelers like me have found a faster, less expensive way to transact business with people all over the world." The internet has taken the world places most could never go and conduct business. Obviously this is how we must focus our business to prosper, this is the new Information Age. The Future Will Be Different "Today, we have a new generation that is going to change the future. This generation is composed of kids born after 1990. These are kids who have only known a world with the Internet. They are not the same as people born before 1990; they were born into a different world and will create a different future. What the future will look like, I do not know exactly-I just know the future they see is not the future I see." "What I do know is that the gap between the rich and poor will continue to expand. The idea of a high-paying job for life is becoming ridiculous as low-wage countries compete globally and as companies exchange ideas across oceans at the speed of light. Jobs tend to migrate to countries with the lowest cost of labor. I predict that young entrepreneurs equipped with low-cost PDAs and access to the Internet will soon rise out of shantytowns and transform the world." "As the Information Age grows, no longer will the rich and powerful nations have a monopoly on the world's true natural resource-our minds. In the invisible world of the Internet, the geniuses of the world will be unleased, and class lines that are centuries old will be erased. A new mega-rich will rise." Our future is the Internet so having your own blog or website is vital to your business. Remember you are preparing for your future, why wouldn't you want to stay with the "kids" of today's world?

Three Reasons why You are Struggling

 

 This is an amazing article that everyone would benefit by reading. Carol Tuttle is such an inspiring woman with eye opening results of finding yourself. Check out this blog on the law of attraction regarding money. Are you struggling financially? Here are three reasons why you might not have money flowing your way and what you should do to help create wealth in your life. 1. You are holding on to old, limiting beliefs about money. Most of the thoughts about money you think in a day are about how much money you do not have. You are just recycling the same limiting beliefs over and over every day of your life. It is so familiar, it has become a part of your self-identity, but you know it is not a part of your true identity because it causes you discomfort. Anything that causes you emotional discomfort is a belief that contradicts your God-given truth. It is simple to release these limiting beliefs that are causing a lack of money flowing into your life with simple energy-clearing techniques and replacing those old beliefs with new truths that flow more money to you. Read More

21 Rules of Engangement in Social Media Review

 

This is a great article on how to play in social media and build relationships. Love the straight forward and easy to follow lists. Social Media is reinventing marketing, communications, and the dissemination of information. For many businesses and organizations, social networks represent hallowed grounds, bringing together customers, prospects and the people who influence their decisions in a shared, balanced, and interactive medium. While businesses now have access to these rich channels, the true promise of social media however, lies in the direct connections that are forged between people who represent companies and the people who define markets of interest. Read More…21 Rules of Engagement in Social Media

Protect Yourself from ID Theft

 Today's world we all need to take extra steps in protecting ourselves at home and online. Here are a few steps 1. Protect Your PC Help keep online threats away from your computer with Anti-Virus Protection, Anti-Spyware Protection and a Firewall. 2. Prevent Identity Theft To help protect your personal information online, shop at only secure websites and don’t reply or click on links in emails asking for personal information. You can also use a personal firewall to help block online intruders. 3. Help Children Stay Safe Online Monitoring your child's online activities can help keep them safe online. Tools like Parental Controls allow you to block access to unwanted websites by age level, category and time of day. Your parental controls also allow you to see what sites your children are visiting, time allowance, and email accounts. 4. Strengthen Your Passwords Avoid using personal names and dates for passwords. Instead create unique passwords that includes letters and numbers and remember to change them frequently. 5. Review Your Social Networking Profile Remove or limit access to sensitive information such as your phone number, address, school, or place of employment. Ensure pictures are appropriate to share and ask before posting pictures of others. Familiarize yourself with and utilize the site's privacy settings. These are simple steps that take minimal time to set up. Don't ignore the facts, ID's are stolen everyday. You need to be proactive in ensuring your safety